Connecting With Clients

Many people view escorting as two adults meeting for a mutually good time but what does that mean. We all know what most people think when talking about escorting but let’s be completely fair here. The job entails a lot more than just pleasing a client physically and it takes a lot more than just a ridiculously beautiful woman, although that helps tremendously. As an escort, it’s your job to serve your clients' needs and understand that your client has booked you as a form of escapism from either his life or current situations. As an escort, it’s your job to connect with your clients emotionally as well as physically. If you’re wondering why you need to do this it’s because an emotional connection can behave as a catalyst to a sensual physical experience. Encounters are a lot more personal and enjoyable when a mental connection has been established mutually. This will help you retain clients and build up a base of regulars as a source of regular income. Connecting with your client on a deeper emotional level can have them returning to you.

Why are Punters Hiring Escorts

It’s important to understand why men hire London escorts. Of course, the pleasure factor is a unique selling point and possibly the main selling point for clients but it’s also for a number of reasons. Some men could be unhappy in there lives, maybe in unhappy relationships or marriages, feel incredibly lonely or just to shy to ever try to court a woman outside of escorting. Not all clients are looking for that one thing, some clients just want some human companionship and that companion being a gorgeous goddess willing to please is just a bonus. Some men crave companionship and a good conversation as much as intimate relations and it’s important to serve this need as well as any physical needs.

Get to know Your Date

A way to do this is to make light conversation when you meet. When you first meet, especially if you’ve never met this client before it’s important to know it may be their first time ever booking an escort. Or they could just be incredibly nervous to meet such a stunning woman that’s actually moving and not just a photograph staring back at them. A light conversation early on can break the ice, cut through any tension and have you both relaxed and ready to enjoy yourselves.

When you conversate, a way to get a deeper connection with your client is to seemingly take a deeper interest. Ask about his work and what’s going on in his life. What are his interests? Does he enjoy movies? If so what movies? Who’s his favourite actor and why? Do you share any of his interests? These get-to-know type questions are the perfect way to dwell deeper into your clients' mind while simultaneously building a mental connection that will benefit the entire experience. After you pry a little bit your client will no doubt begin revealing aspects of his life he probably wouldn’t otherwise. Like what he thinks of his boss or how much he really doesn’t enjoy going home to his wife after work.

Whatever the case you have to find it in yourself to connect. Remember, for your own safety never to reveal personal information that could be used against you such as your real name or where you work if you have an occupation outside of escorting. If you really need to just pretend to relate to situations and claim you’ve been in similar. Even if you haven’t ever experienced a similar situation, the fact you can relate to the emotion your client is feeling can be enough to develop a mental connection. When you dwell a little deeper into your clients' mind and heart you can now probe a little deeper. See if your client has any fantasies or sexual desires he was too shy to voice or too scared to try in his own relationship. Or maybe he’s just never had the chance to try it, especially with such a beautiful woman. Find out if he does, and if your willing to cater to whatever fetish your client has, do this. He might even tip you extra, get you presents or just become a very loyal client.

Connecting With Clients Isn't Always Easy

As you discover your client, it’s important to remember he has paid for a service and expects you to provide that service and relieve his stress. It’s important for you to be empathetic and tactful. Laughing at your clients' short cummings or failing to understand their perspective on points of view can lead to debates and fallouts, which isn’t what your client paid you for and not what the service you’re supposed to provide. Be tactful, empathetic and kind and your client will reward you with his business. Escorting isn’t an easy job. It requires you to serve people mentally and physically and as an escort it’s important to remember your role, stay tactful and remember most of all, to have fun. Happy escorting!