Aspects to dating a client

Throughout your career as an escort, you’re going to come across many different clients, whether they leave a lasting memory in your brain or made some impact on your life or not. At some point, you might find yourself revisiting the same client because they’ve been so satisfied with your services, that they want to book you on repeat.

Forming a bond with a regular isn’t such an uncommon occurrence, and in some cases, this strong trust and rapport can even develop into a personal relationship. If you’ve found that you’re gradually developing feelings for your client, and you’re unsure about how this could pan out, read on to find out a few of the different aspects of dating a client:

 

Whats the difference?

As your emotional ties become stronger, and you and your ex-client are progressing in a relationship, an issue that may arise are insecurities on your partners part. One thing to be considerate of is his feelings if you choose to continue your career as an escort.

Because of the nature of how you met, he may feel as though your relationship with him is no different to the way you treat your clients, as you are giving them the fantasy of a relationship, and it may make him feel as though you aren’t being genuine to him, and are just treating him as though he is still a client, and that he’s just getting the same as any other guy who books you in for companionship.

 

On second thoughts…

Meeting a client who you have a mutual attraction to can cause you both to have a lot of amazing energy between you both, after all, he did hand pick you as his dream woman for the evening. You’re impressed by his smarts, his looks and he’s a gentleman, but be sure that you’re not getting carried away with overwhelming lust!

Yes, being so intensely attracted to someone can give you the illusion that you are in love, and makes you view everything through rose-tinted shades. You could jump into a relationship because you cant keep your hands off each other, but what about when it comes to sitting and having a conversation?

You may find that you actually have nothing to talk about, nothing you connect over, and way different perspectives to even agree on anything.

 

Paranoia

If you continue to be an escort whilst also engaging in a personal relationship with your ex-client, be sure to bear in mind how this will affect your perspective on your relationship. Getting to meet many different men, some who are already in relationships and who are being unfaithful to wives or girlfriends, this can give you a really bad image on men and may make you paranoid or fear for your own relationship, and especially given that you met your partner through escorting, your imagination can get carried away with you and make you feel as though maybe your man could be one of the guys you meet who have a habit for playing away from home.

 

Extra Effort

Dating an ex-client can be a way different experience than just dating someone outside of your escorting. Your ex-client is aware that there is a lot of competition out there, and that because you’re meeting so many people every day, there's always the chance of someone else putting a twinkle in your eye.

Your partner will go that extra mile to spoil you, pamper you, and care for you more than any of your clients ever would, after all, what more can he do for you than your clients don’t already do?

He knows that everything material is provided for you and that every guy tells you every day how beautiful you are, so he’ll take even extra care to ensure that you are cared for in every other way, taking your holistic needs into account.

We hope this post gave you a little further insight into what to expect if you choose to pursue a relationship with a client. All relationships have ups and downs and if you’re both willing to work through it, then there can be a happily ever after! Thanks for reading, and enjoy.