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To protect ourselves, whatever the situation, it’s always good to be aware of the risks that are involved, or that may arise in order for us to protect ourselves and to be mentally and emotionally prepared for whatever life chooses to hand us.
As an escort, because you’re interacting with so many different people, and even deeply connecting with some clients on an intellectual level, it’s not impossible to think that rather than the clients falling head over heels with our escorts (quite a common occurrence what with how exciting and glamorous our escorts are), our escorts fall in love with their clients. Yes, it can happen, that special someone comes along that can make an escort suddenly feel all giggly and get butterflies in her normally steady stomach.
If these feelings are sounding kinda familiar, it seems that you’re falling in love, and you’re not entirely ready to compromise your work. Here are a few risks to consider as an escort when choosing to chase up a relationship with a client:
You may usually be quite turned off to personal relationships, and are happy to be intimate with people without any emotional ties, however some nights you may find yourself longing a normal ‘real’ relationship.
When falling for a client you may find yourself panicking that it’s not professional for you to be gaining feelings for them. You may be wishing to have met under more ‘normal’ circumstances such as both of you reaching for the same book in a book-store, or bumping into each other at a mutual friends party.
Dating a client isn’t an easy decision for an escort to make, especially if you’re an escort who has chosen to protect their identity, and is very cautious when attending bookings to keep an atmosphere of mystery surrounding yourself.
Ugly breakups aren’t impossible and it may be difficult for you to know if you can trust someone who was an ex-client, as there could be a risk of them exposing your real identity and your escorting ‘double life’ to your loved ones who aren’t aware of the nature of work you do, but also it would be unfair to your partner if you didn’t reveal your personal information to them upon choosing to pursue a personal relationship, because then they don’t know who it is that they’ve found this emotional connection with.
Another thing that could bring about trust issues is the fact that as an escort you may meet many clients who are being unfaithful to their partners, already crippling your view on men and your trust in them, and what’s to stop your partner from hiring another escort, especially if you’re providing companionship to other men anyway?
As many escorts live ‘double lives’, although some experiences and services they provide are more personal such as ‘The Girlfriend Experience’, they always have a barrier up in order to protect their identity and not let their client find out too much about them.
Putting on this fantasy for other clients can sometimes get a little exhausting and is easy to get caught up in being someone else for the evening, and then going home and actually getting to be the real you. It may prove to be difficult at first showing your partner the real you when you’ve spent so long showing men a persona to fulfil their own fantasies and fetishes, and sometimes you may even mix up the real you and your escorting persona, which can cause mixed signals to your partner, resulting in confusion.
It may confuse you at first and make you overthink, being insecure about whether your partner is with you for you, or because of your profession. The fact of you being an escort may have excited him into pursuing a professional relationship with you, and there is always the opportunity of your ex-client taking advantage of your experience, skillset and beauty, and see’s it as more of a novelty thing, being with an escort and feeling that because of your profession, they are entitled to free intimacy as and when they please.
It’s useful to take risks into account before pursuing anything so then we are able to know whether it’s the type of risk we are wanting to take, and are prepared for. Thank you for reading!